Twenty four hours ago I received proof that twitter is more than just a social network. It came in form of a text from my Soror Z who said she had bad news. She told me that she'd called to check on our Soror Cryssy Davis and was told that she had passed. Surely I was reading this incorrectly. No way this was right. Maybe she'd dialed the wrong number. So many things went through my head. How could this be happening? She has two young daughters under age 4- one only a few months old. Surely they have not lost their mother. And then the tears started to flow.
And honestly they haven't really stopped. I got no sleep yesterday. I got on twitter early, hoping to have been awakened from what seemed like a bad dream. What I saw only made the flow of tears increase. so many people loved Cryssy. She touched SO many of us and what's weird is that a lot of us haven't met her face to face. It is proof that you can love someone you haven't met that, that they can be an important part of your life, through texts, emails and tweets.
I hadn't known her long but I knew her long enough to know that she had such a big heart. She was full of love and genuinely cared about people. After having her baby she was the one checking on me when I was having a rough time and in need of encouragement. I can't tell you all how much it meant to see the simple message "how are you doing today baby girl?" You just had a baby, I should be checking on you, but she had to make sure that I was doing okay.
She definitely left an imprint in my heart and memory forever, and I noticed today the amount of my Sorors who felt the same way. Some new her longer, some had spent time with her in person, but we all loved her and we all miss her already. And her love reached so much further than just my sorority sisters. Other friends of hers who also loved her, and who were brought into our lives by her, people who I can also say that I care about, expressed their love for Cryssy. In the end one thing was evident-- no way was this "just twitter." It's like we have a little family. A crazy family that makes us laugh, gives us advice, shares their lives with us in so many ways. I plan to start meeting more of my twitter family, but even if I don't, they all have a special place in my heart.
Sigh. I feel absolutely the same way. It's crazy how you can miss someone you've never actually met. I remember first 'meeting' Cryssy during an AKA BBM group chat. Soon there were too many people in the chat and 'thecensored1' was the first to count herself out because it was slowing down her blackberry lol. She suggested we follow her on twitter to keep in touch, and I did. Every day I could count on Cryssy to make me laugh, think, smh, or some combination of the 3. Despite our never having met in person, I am so glad to have encountered such a beautiful spirit and I'm so sad that she's gone.
ReplyDeleteTwitter has afforded me a means of connecting with people that would have never happened otherwise. I have come across you ladies and read Cryssy's Blog and although I didn't know her, I'm saddened by your loss.
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